Keys to a Fight Free Marriage

No. . .no. We don’t raise our voices at each other. We definitely disagree. It’s not that we have’t disagreed, or like he hasn’t been uncomfortable with something I did or I’m uncomfortable with something he did. We’ve definitely had moments. . . But we definitely communicate in a way that we don’t let it build up. 

If it was Monday, we’d have a “keep it real Monday” conversation. At breakfast we’d be like later we need to have a keep it real Monday conversation.” [to which he would respond] “Keep it real Monday conversation, Ok.” And later we’d set down and I’d say, ‘I’ve got to keep it real. This bothered be. . .’ And he’d be like “ Really, I didn’t mean it like that.” “I know but it came off crazy.” “Oh my fault, I’m sorry.” So we get a chance to converse before it turns into the big blowout. You know if you don’t catch before, it gets crazy. So we catch it and we don’t have to yell. Try it.”